Casey.

I debated posting anything, or even writing anything today. Our grief still feels like something I need to protect and keep private. Several events happened after Casey's death that made me feel like I needed to say something. Because keeping quiet only amplifies the stigma. So... The first event relates to one of my children. I'm…

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Parenting.

When I started .ing back on another format a few years ago the premise was i would write about all things i was doing. gardening. living. working. loving. writing. All things Heather is doing. heatheringheather. or for short .ing. some things have changed over time, as my life has changed and i have found myself writing…

Holy Shit Moments

Digging up some old blogs from my blogspot account. From Dec. 13, 2012 holy shit moments one of the things i learned a long time ago are is there are holy shit moments. i used to think that once in a while, you would get one. one that smacked you upside the head. but what…

loves not lost.

so today marks the official 2 year anniversary of the break up. and i think from this point forward I'm going to try to quit referencing it as a milestone. i tend to look at my life in segments. my marriage. my life post steve/pre chris.  my relationship with chris. my life post chris. its…

not a resolutions list.

i don't make resolutions lists. i do however make lists. lots of lists. i set goals all year long. but the turning of the calendar does lend itself nicely to taking a look back, and a solid look forward. looking back: two years ago, i had to set some new goals because 5 days into the…