Parenting.

When I started .ing back on another format a few years ago the premise was i would write about all things i was doing. gardening. living. working. loving. writing. All things Heather is doing. heatheringheather. or for short .ing. some things have changed over time, as my life has changed and i have found myself writing…

Holy Shit Moments

Digging up some old blogs from my blogspot account. From Dec. 13, 2012 holy shit moments one of the things i learned a long time ago are is there are holy shit moments. i used to think that once in a while, you would get one. one that smacked you upside the head. but what…

loves not lost.

so today marks the official 2 year anniversary of the break up. and i think from this point forward I'm going to try to quit referencing it as a milestone. i tend to look at my life in segments. my marriage. my life post steve/pre chris.  my relationship with chris. my life post chris. its…

not a resolutions list.

i don't make resolutions lists. i do however make lists. lots of lists. i set goals all year long. but the turning of the calendar does lend itself nicely to taking a look back, and a solid look forward. looking back: two years ago, i had to set some new goals because 5 days into the…

shit storms.

my dad said a really cool grace at thanksgiving about being thankful for when life sucks. and i've had a few rounds of life really sucking hard and it was a good point to be made. because through life sucking, if you do it right, you come out the other side of the suck with…

blah blah blah, ing.

i dont think there is ever much quiet space in my brain. its not like i meander through life with few thoughts or opinions. in fact, i often feel vehemently and passionately about a wide rage of things. i'm more tempered. i'm more thoughtful. this is a quieter version of me (truly i know shocking.…

the winter of our discontent.

for some reason this phrase has been rolling around in my head for months. i've been turning it over like a stone and it feels smooth and comfortable in my hand. yet i have no idea what it means to me right now. but this i know.i'm a summer girl. always have been. i love…